How to Get Your Wife Back Before Divorce - 3 Dangerous Myths

In this article, you'll learn how to get your wife back before divorce.

If you feel that you let your wife go, but now wish more than anything to get her back... then this is the most important article you're ever going to read.

Here's why:

Right now, we are facing a divorce epidemic. America in particular, is facing the highest divorce rates EVER. Today in America, it is expected that 40-55% of all marriages will FAIL in divorce!

Let that sink in for a second.

This means that half of all "just married" posts you see on Facebook (you know... the ones with hundreds of likes and happy comments from friends and family)... will end in divorce. Half of all
the marriages you attend this summer will not be "happily ever after."

They won't last!

Sorry to be such a party-pooper, but it's important for you to understand why this happens if you want to get your wife back.

Why are marriages working out less and less?

Part of it has to do with what you've been led to believe by society. The media, our friends, our family, and even Hollywood movies have brainwashed us to believe the wrong process of how "attracting a woman" works. As well-intentioned as some of the advice may be, it actually makes men SUCK with women.

If you do what everyone else does, you have a high chance of becoming part of the tragic divorce statistic.

Take the time to learn what it takes to get your wife back before divorce, and you will be able to pull through and your wife will be back in your arms again.

So let's go over some big mistakes you're probably making. In particular, there are 3 myths of what everyone says you should do to save your marriage that actually make things WORSE.

3 Dangerous Myths That Stop You From Getting Your Wife Back

There are 3 myths everyone gives you as "advice" when it comes to getting your wife back.

Myth #1: "Communication is the Key to a Great Relationship"

This may be true, but only in a healthy relationship with a solid foundation of love, trust, and respect.

But NOT if you're in a BROKEN relationship where your wife sees you as weak.

Because when your wife has hardened her heart for you, communicating how you love her, miss her, and want her back... only makes you come across WEAKER.

That's why I always recommend going "no contact" whenever a student asks me for help after a breakup. No contact stops you from impulsively sending your wife texts that pour out your feelings and beg her to take you back.

Instead, you should be coming from a position of STRENGTH.

And what being strong means for you right now, is that you should NEVER EVER EVER beg your wife to take you back.

And now the next myth...

Myth #2: "Lavish Her With Gifts to Win Her Affection Back"

You might get this type of advice from your buddies during "locker room" talk.

To compensate for the fact that you're behaving in a way that pushes your wife away... you shower her with gifts with the hopes that it will magically make her eager to take you back.

However, this is the WRONG move. It will not work.

Why? Because it doesn't fix the underlying fundamental problem that's making her fall out of love with you.

Buying her more things isn't going to change it, and it further pushes her away because she feels you don't "get" how to make her want you back again.

Also, she knows you are trying to get her back with EXTERNAL things like gifts, and not because she wants to get back with you for WHO YOU ARE.

I mean, do you really want to be with a woman who is with you because of the material things you provide for her... and not because she just loves being around you? This only filters for dishonesty and gold-diggers.

So if you're sending flowers to her work... or if you're thinking about getting her that necklace she's being wanting for a while... DON'T DO IT.

Buying meaningful gifts in a relationship is totally fine... but when the relationship bond is already weak, and you're buying her gifts as an attempt to compensate for her not feeling attraction for you anymore... and you're giving her a gift as a means to "bribe" her to take you back... it will only do more DAMAGE to the already weakened relationship.

It's like there's a big hole in the relationship, and you're trying to patch it up with material things. But you're still ignoring the hole. It will still persist.

Instead... you want to give your wife one "magic" feeling that makes her eager to get back together with you. I'll tell you about what this feeling is in a minute, but first let's go over the 3rd myth.

Myth #3: "Show Her How Much You Care and She'll Realize it and Take You Back"

Another myth perpetuated by Hollywood and the media.

Time and time again, romantic comedies teach us that the way to a woman's heart is to prove to her that you really love her... and then when she realizes this... she will magically fall back in love with you again.

Men try this, and then proceed to attempt to fix their broken marriage with thoughtful actions like

• Saying "I love you" more often
• Helping her out with her problems
• Making more special "date nights"
• Sending her cute little texts to show her you're thinking about her
• Being there for her

Once again, these things are AWESOME when a relationship is already thriving.

When a relationship is broken, however, it only makes the problem worse.

These "thoughtful" actions fail not because you didn't prove to her that you cared. Trust me, she already KNOWS that you care. These behaviors fail because they don't address the fundamental issue
with the relationship.

Do you what the issue is?

These seemingly romantic behaviors don't work because they don't make the woman feel that 1 specific feeling she needs to feel to want to be back with you.

What is this feeling?

It's ATTRACTION.

Attraction is it!

Making your wife feel attraction for you is the most important thing you need to focus on if you ever want to get her back.

Learning to make attracted to you is the path to saving your marriage and stopping your divorce.

Once you start making her feel attraction for you again, she'll start doubting her decision to leave you, and she'll start wanting to make the marriage work.

However, right now she sees you as WEAK.

I'm sorry, but this is the reality you have to work with... for now.

You simply aren't triggering enough attraction in her. Plus, if you're doing any of the behaviors listed in myths 1 through 3 on this article... you're making her even LESS attracted.

This is because the "romantic gestures" I mentioned only make her feel PRESSURED and MANIPULATED. She probably sees right through these gestures and automatically throws up an "emotional wall" that makes her hesitant to reconnect with you emotionally.

She doesn't want to be tricked to get back with you. She wants to be truly attracted... and secretly, she hopes you are able to do it.

Because she once felt attraction for you. That's why she married you! It's just that somewhere along the way, you started acting weak... probably without even knowing it.

I hope this article has shown you how to get your wife back before divorce by helping you identify any weak behaviors... and best of luck with re-attracting your wife back!

How to Create Chemistry With a Girl Over Text By Using "Masculine Communication"

Today we will learn how to create chemistry with a girl over text by using MASCULINE COMMUNICATION.

If a girl you like isn't giving you positive responses over text, this article is for you.

Especially if...

• It seems like she holds all the power in the interaction and you feel weak
• She acts "bitchy" and tries to be "dominant" with her responses
• You want to take things further, but you don't know how to get her interested

If any of the above is true, it probably means you aren't using enough masculine communication. Once you do, you'll notice her give you better reactions and it will be much easier to get her to go out with you.

What is Chemistry?

When you take control and use masculine communication, you start triggering chemistry inside of a girl.

Chemistry in a girl gets sparked when you communicate with man-to-woman polarity.

Whenever you are giving off "masculine energy"... it makes a woman feel more "feminine"... which then makes you feel even MORE masculine and you both become attracted to each other. When this happens, you both literally FEEL CHEMISTRY inside your bodies.

When you get a girl feeling this way, you start giving her thoughts like "I hope he makes a move on me and kisses me. I wonder when he'll do it..."

However, most men just don't "get" how to act masculine.

This dog and deer know how to create chemistry

Instead of leading and being decisive, most men act too indecisive, they beat around the bush, and they act more like a woman than they man. They use too much FEMININE communication!

See, when you use too much feminine communication, you DEPOLARIZE the interaction and chemistry cannot happen. Instead of acting like a man, you're acting like one of her girlfriends or gay best friends.

That's why it's important to know how to inject masculine communication into your conversations and text messaging.

Because when you know how to create chemistry with a girl over text, it will be that much easier to get her out on a date.

Ok now that we've covered the basics, it's time to give you some examples.

I'm going to give you a few tips and techniques that you can start using right away. Sound good?

4 Example Ways to Create Chemistry With a Girl Over Text

1. More Statements, Less Questions

The first one's simple. Too many questions makes you lose your masculine "edge" and makes you seem more "feminine."

Of course, I'm not saying you should take out every single question. Otherwise it would be impossible to communicate.

What I'm saying is that some guys OVERLY ask way too many questions and because of it they don't come across attractive.

Instead, the communication becomes depolarized and loses its chemistry.

If you realize you are asking too many questions, think deep about WHY you felt you had to ask those questions. You see, when you are too REACTIVE and "permission-seeking" with a woman, you tend to ask more questions. Your tone becomes like a little boy asking his mommy for approval.

So let's avoid that, ok?

Instead try making more STATEMENTS rather than questions.

Statements are confident, assertive, and they dominate the conversion. That's why statements are MASCULINE communication.

When you text a girl "just had a cup of coffee brewed by the hand of GOD" or a statement about a funny experience you had that day... you are being the DIRECTOR of the conversation and leading the interaction to where you want it to go.

The statement then causes the girl to react and then ask you a question (a feminine response).

And now you can better imagine how an attractive conversation will go. If you are able to talk to a woman and get into a rhythm of using masculine communication, while she reacts with feminine communication, you can build the conversation up to a date, a kiss, etc...

Awesome.

2. Be Decisive When Making a Date

Most men are too wishy-washy with women when making plans to meet up.

Instead of being decisive, they become accommodating, permission-seeking, and they let the girl lead because they're afraid she won't like the date idea.

However, this communicates MASSIVE WEAKNESS.

And here's why...

If you're trying to persuade the girl to go out with you by "selling" the date idea and how great it's going to be... you're subtly communication that you're not worthy enough!

See, if a girl likes you, it doesn't matter where she goes with you.

What matters is the interaction between the two of you, the actual date idea is just background music.

The important thing is that you create a fun-filled romantic opportunity
for sex to happen.

If you feel the need to "sweeten the pot"... if you feel you need external things to convince her to agree to a date, the woman is going to sense you don't value yourself and she will lose attraction for you.

Instead of asking "where do you want to meet?"

say "Ok, this is where I can meet you"

or "Here's what I have planned"

or "This is where I'll be, join me if you want"

Instead of asking "what do you want to do?" say "this is what we're going to do"

Remember, you are the prize.

So be decisive. Set the date. It doesn't matter where it is... as long as you make the logistics lead to sex.

You're giving her a chance to experience you and the positive emotions you're going to give her.

Next.

3. Keep it Short -- You Value Your Time

A) Text conversations kill chemistry.

If you want a woman's attraction to fizzle out, get into text conversations that go nowhere.

Here's an interesting fact about female psychology. Women feel that when there's chemistry, things will happen fast. If they don't happen fast, she rationalizes you must not be "the one" otherwise "getting physical" would have happened already.

B) When You Have Options, Time is Precious

When you're in abundance and texting a bunch of girls, you don't waste time texting one girl for a long time.

No, you get to the point and make plans to meet up.

Whenever you're acting like you have an abundance of girls to date, women sense this and become really impressed. Because they see you are a wanted man of value.

C) Masculine Energy Makes You Aligned With INTENT

When you're in abundance and you want to get to the point, you don't get into wishy-washy conversations where you aren't clearly at least suggesting what you want with a girl.

Your intent with a girl is usually to make plans to meet and have a fun-filled experience that leads to sex.

Masculine energy suggests this intent all along the way. When it does, it creates chemistry.

Therefore, your text messaging should incorporate some intent. Your texts should strategically suggest that intent, make a connection, and schedule a meet up.

4. Masculine Energy Doesn't Wait For Permission to Go For What it Wants

The biggest mistake men make is waiting for more proof that a girl likes them without ever making a move.

They get mixed signals from the girl, and are unsure, so they sit and wait without ever getting her out.

But what really happens if you do this, is that you're AVOIDING getting out of your comfort zone.

You're afraid of rejection so much that you wait for more permission from the woman.

It's like you want the woman to say "Ok I have feelings for you, you can go ahead and make a move on me now, thanks."

But when you do this, you are letting HER be the masculine one... which doesn't spark chemistry at all.

Learn to embrace rejection. And you know what? Most of your success comes when you have the possibility of rejection.

Because EVOLUTION occurs only OUTSIDE of your COMFORT ZONE.

There you have it. Hope you have a better idea of how to create chemistry with a girl over text and hope this article helped you understand how to use "masculine communication" with a girl.

5 Techniques to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over Text

Is a woman only responding with dry, COLD replies to your text messages?

In this article, we're going to talk about "sexual tension" and how to create it.

I'm going to give you 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.

This is ESPECIALLY important to "get" if women seem eager to talk to you at first, but then their excitement level "fizzles out" after a while.

You'll be able to use these 5 texting techniques to ramp up sexual tension so that the girl gives you responses that are more "full of energy."

What is Sexual Tension?

Sexual tension is the CONTRAST between ATTRACTION and ESCALATION.

When you're with a girl and you're looking into her eyes and it makes you horny, and it makes her horny, and you both want to jump each others' bones... but yet you hold your place and bask in that unresolved desire.

THAT is tension!

The thing is, you can suggest and give little clues that you want her, but you aren't completely being OVERT about it.

In essence, you are TEASING the woman by exciting her so much without resolving that tension such that she nervously giggles and ends jumping you and kissing you because she can't take it anymore.

However, most men can't handle tension. They can't hold it, so they jump too fast and kill the tension. Because of this, women are increasingly frustrated that they can't find a guy who "gets" it.

But you are here reading this article... and you now have access to powerful material few men will ever know about.

Because when you have the ability to create and maintain sexual tension... it makes women literally ADDICTED to you. They won't be able to resist it.

The KEY to Building Sexual Tension

Now let me give you the "MAGIC" formula for sexual tension.

They key to creating sexual tension is...

OBSTACLES that frustrate or delay the ESCALATION.

Let's focus on the two red words in all caps.

First, "escalation". This should be pretty obvious. When you "escalate" you take things to the next level, one more step closer to sex.

Second is "obstacles." And this one's the most important... because it gives you a clue
on how to build sexual tension.

What this says is if you are able to you create OBSTACLES, by using tactics, language, or texts, that delay the path to sex... then you are able to generate tension.

Remember, again, there already has to be SOME attraction for this to work. There has to be arousal for you to amplify the arousal with tension. If you've created zero attraction, creating an obstacle to escalation won't do anything.

Make sense?

Ok now let's go over 5 ways to increase sexual tension in text message conversations. These are 5 methods that create "obstacles".

Method #1: Teasing the Escalation

Whenever you are already texting "naughty" with a girl... don't go overt too fast.

Instead, "tease" the escalation.

Behold the "Pancake Tease" Technique:

Analysis:

• I didn't jump straight to eating her out
• Instead, I "skirted" around the edges by describing that same "eating out" behavior on a pancake
• This created more tension, and turned her on more, than if I just described eating her out.
• I did this online and the teasing STANDS OUT. Remember, the internet is the world of men with abnormally high confidence because they're hiding behind their computer screens.

Method #2: Inject Innuendos Into the Conversation

Innuendos are words with double meanings. These are words that have an "innocent" meaning, but also a sexual interpretation.

When you can get a woman aroused... but it's still "unclear" if things are going to happen... you create sexual tension.

That's what innuendos help you do.

Their "double meaning" ambiguity makes things uncertain and it presents an obstacle to the escalation.

Examples of Innuendos

• ride it (ride the car)
• I'm giving you a hard time (teasing you)
• that's very big of you (big as in important)
• come down here (to this place)
• eating out (going to eat, not eating her out)
• let's go down (to a place)
• the test was so hard (very difficult)
• new direction (sounds like nude erection)
• getting wet (because it's raining)

All of these phrases can have a sexual interpretation, if she chooses to take that path. That being said, here's the step-by-step of how to make innuendos work...

Step 1: BAIT - Inject an innuendo into a conversation
Step 2: See if she takes the bait - see if the girl reacts to it
Step 3: It's ON

Next.

Method 3 will help you if you're about to go on a date.

Method #3: Building Tension and Anticipation Before a Date

This works great to warm her up before you see her.

For example, if you're going to meet a woman for coffee in the afternoon, text her "Hmmm, I can't wait until you buy me coffee today... the aroma in that cafe is so delicious and the creamy mochas are the best."

This text...

1. Stimulates her senses with descriptive words

2. Is cocky because you're suggesting she will buy you coffee

3. Gets her intrigued and gets her wondering about the evening she's going to have with you. It BUILDS ANTICIPATION

Next...

Method #4: Use Push/Pull Flirting to Ramp up the Tension

A pull is an "I like you" type message while a push is a "this is not going to work out" type message.

The mistake most men do is either they "pull" the girl too much by putting her on a pedestal... or they "push" the girl too much by "negging" her, and acting like the jerk.

However, when you alternate the two playfully, you are doing the dance of FLIRTING.

This makes a woman uncertain of how much you like, and as you can imagine, this generates massive amounts of tension.

If you are able to inject intent in the conversation while, injecting a few "pushes" here and there, you will notice the woman react positively.

Here's the 5th method to generate sexual tension.

Method #5: Blame the Escalation on Her

With this one, you make it all her fault.

Something she is doing is making you feel and act that way.

Basically, if you're escalating on her... it's her fault. If you're getting turned on by her... it's her fault.

This is pretty cheeky and clever because it introduces "plausible deniability." You playfully deny your intent because it's HER FAULT she is making you feel that way.

And when you do this, you create uncertainty... which creates sexual tension.

Examples of Blaming Her For the Escalation

• Why are you making me think these thoughts about you?
• Do you seduce every guy like this?
• You're doing this on purpose... I'm on to your tricks little one
• Why are you doing this to me? You're the worst. I hate you.
• How did you know I have a weakness for brunettes from Southern Cali
• Are you trying to hypnotize me with your eyes right now?
• You know, it's really not cool to be so cute and charming. Not fair.

The lines above should give you an idea of the technique. I provide them to you so you can have "training wheels" to practice.

That's it! 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.

Well, I probably gave you way more than 5... so you're welcome ;)

For more attraction tips, go here: http://championsofmen.com/5-ways-to-create-sexual-tension-with-a-girl-over-text/

4 Example Ways to Roleplay With a Girl Over Text

Let's face it, texting is super important when it comes to interacting with cute girls.

If you don't text, you're at a disadvantage.

One of the main problems guys face when texting women is running out of things to say. They run out of ideas, and the conversation fizzles out.

If this is something you're experiencing, keep reading because I'm going to reveal 4 example ways to roleplay with a girl over text.

First, let me explain what a roleplay is... and how to roleplay with a girl over text.

How to Roleplay With a Girl Over Text

What the Heck is a Roleplay?

A roleplay is back and forth where both you and the girl get into "character."

When you roleplay, you get into a fun, "pretend" scenario.

For example...

You are texting a cute girl and you are trying to spark her emotions.

If you send her something like "I'm at the supermarket... just bought some grapes... anything else you want me to get?"

If she plays along with "Yeah honey, we're low on milk. Also, get some bread and cheese"... then you have successfully started a roleplay!

Roleplays can happen with any girl... whether or not you've met in person (i.e. online dating)

How to Start a Roleplay With a Girl?

By throwing a "bait" text.

Looking at the above example I gave you, I texted, "I'm at the supermarket... just brought some grapes... anything else you want me to get?"

This was a "bait text" for her to bite on. It's a way to "test the waters." She can now decide to play along or not.

Let's go over more examples ways to roleplay with a girl over text.

Ready?

Okay let's begin.

4 Text Roleplay Examples

Roleplay Idea #1: "The Mime"

Step 1: This one you start by texting her: "I need an opinion with something"

This does two things.

One, you give her curiosity bait. She will be wondering what you're going
to ask her.

Two, you put her in "autopilot" with this question. See, she is expecting
an actual serious question from you. Little does she know that you're going
to transform this into a funny roleplay exchange.

Most likely, she will respond with "what is it?" Or something like that.

Then comes the next part.

Step 2: Knock her off her autopilot and surprise her by saying something
funny and outrageous.

you: I'm thinking about quitting my job and becoming a mime

And now with this you've thrown a "bait text" with roleplay potential.
A girl here will play along (if she's a funny girl)... or she might
give you a boring reply.

Here's an example text conversation with the mime roleplay in action:

Getting Her Out

Once you've sparked her "buying temperature" (she shows emotions and engagement) ...go for the meet up and get her out.

Next.

Roleplay Idea #2: Future Adventure Projection

When you do a "future adventure" roleplay with a girl, you get into a pretend scenario where you both go on an adventure.

 For example, I used the following text roleplay sequence to get a woman's phone number on POF (Plenty of Fish):

As you can see, I was able to escalate the interaction to a number with intention of going on a date.

Next.

Roleplay Idea #3: The "Fake" Past Adventure

This is similar to the future adventure, but in this case, you pretend like you have a "history" together.

i.e. send her a cheesy romance novel cover.

Like this...

(By the way here's the link for the "romance novel" cover image that I used: http://championsofmen.com/images/rn4.jpg

Next one.

Roleplay Idea #4: Hire/Fire Her

Use this one to create push/pull sexual tension.

By hiring her, you are making her qualify herself for something she is good at.

The best part is, once she qualifies, you get her to INVEST in the interaction.

This then gets her to rationalize: "If I'm investing in this conversation and I'm still talking to this guy, it must mean I'm starting to like him"

How to Start the Roleplay

Whenever she mentions something she is good at... tell her that you're going to hire her to help you do (that thing she is good at).

By doing this, you compliment her but also coming from a position of POWER.

If she does something smart, say: "You seem like a smart girl, I'm hiring you as my personal assistant"

If she is fun, say: "I'm hiring you as my personal party planner when my friends come to town"

This works for anything.

Is she fit? She can be your personal trainer.

Is she stylish? She can be your "fashionista."

Is she a good cook? She can be your personal chef.

You get the idea.

Now here's where it gets fun.

Whenever she messes up. You can then FIRE HER playfully.

"Omg I can't believe you don't like ____. That's it. You're fired. Time to check out the resumes of the other applicants ;)"

Once again, this is all in good fun. You're not trying to come across as a mean jerk. You're trying to have fun while brightening up her day, and of course, making her become attracted to you.

And if you want more texting techniques to get women wanting to go out on dates with you...
go to this article here.

How to Turn Your Female Friend Into Your Girlfriend

Are you frustrated because you're stuck in the friend zone with that amazing woman you can't stop thinking about?

When women keep putting you in the friend zone, it's probably due to 2 HUGE MISTAKES that stop you from getting physical with her.

These two mistakes stop her from thinking of you as more than just a friend.

They make it IMPOSSIBLE for her to envision getting physical with you.

The possibility NEVER crosses her mind.

If you keep making these mistakes, you will keep getting friend zoned by the women you meet.

But if you fix these mistakes... women will start thinking of you as someone they would get "physical" with.

The first mistake is...

Mistake #1: Hesitating to Make a Move On Her Because You're Waiting For More "Proof" That She Likes You

Look, if you sit around waiting for a woman to make it really obvious that she likes you... you will LOSE your chance.

She will get tired of waiting, and rationalize it's not "meant to be" because things aren't getting physical.

That's why you need to LEAD the situation to where you want it to go.

Yes there's a TON of risk involved... but masculine behavior is all about leading, taking risks, and making things happen.

It's what you have to do!

When you shamelessly suggest your intent with her, you are being MASCULINE.

Plus you demonstrate confidence, and she will appreciate you for it.

Most men "play it safe" by

• engaging in long text conversations of "getting to know her" before making
• any attempt to get her out
• never even trying to flirt in a sexual way because you're scared she'll get offended
• never going for the kiss to avoid getting rejected
• never attempting to take things to a more "physical" level when you're alone to avoid rejection
• procrastinating and never making your move

All of that is UN-MASCULINE behavior that won't get you anywhere!

Acting "un-masculine" stops you from creating the crucial "masculine-feminine polarity" that makes women FEEL CHEMISTRY when interacting with you.

When you know how to trigger chemistry like this, it makes women want to be around you.

But if you only engage in "safe" uninteresting interactions... women place you in the nice guy friend category.

Because you only never get into the *more risky conversations that spark emotions in her. (conversations like these)

She puts on her "good girl" side, puts away her "bad girl" naughty side... and saves it for the guy who can trigger emotions in her.

Mistake #2: Revealing Your Feelings, But in a Weak, Low-Status Way

Yeah, yeah, I know I just said mistake #1 was waiting too long and not being "aggressive" enough... but if you show a girl you like her like a weak, submissive, beta-male does, then that won't work either!

Because a woman won't feel attraction for a man who acts weak and doesn't value himself.

When you're weak and insecure, and you fall in love with a girl... a tragic story follows.

It's the same tragic story I've experienced countless of times.

The 15-Step Tragedy of How Boy Gets Rejected By Girl and Feels Sad About it Afterwards

1. Boy meets girl

2. Boy develops feelings for girl

3. Girl gives boy "mixed signals"

4. Mixed signals make boy confused with irrational, but intense, emotions

5. Boy gets "psychic tension"

6. The "Psychic tension" makes boy want to break the tension by revealing his feelings for the girl

7. Boy reveals his feelings for girl with "grand gesture" act.

This is an act where he might...

• buy the girl flowers
• give her a gift
• write her a poem
• draw cheesy portrait of her face
• etc...

8. Girl says "awww" and mentions how boy is so sweet

9. But then girl says she doesn't feel the same way about boy.

10. Boy gets heartbroken

11. Boy moves on

12. Boy recovers

13. Boy meets new girl

14. Boy starts getting feelings for new girl

15. Cycle repeats...

If this is all ringing a bell, then you can relate to this experience, just like me.

And as we look at this cycle, the question becomes...

How do you break the cycle and start becoming more than friends with that amazing woman in our life that we really want?

Here's how you break the cycle:

You know steps 5 through 7 above? Like where I mention the "psychic tension" you get when you start to really obsess over a girl?

You have to FLIP IT AROUND and instead make the girl feel the psychic tension.

See, you want her to be the one obsessing over you... telling her friends about you... because she feels crazy attracted to you.

It's all explained here in this article