How to Make a Girl Obsess Over You

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Want to know how to make a girl obsess over you? Then make sure you watch the video above.

In the video, Bobby and Rob talk about how to make a girl obsessed with you.

Now, I will summarize the video (for a more in-depth summary, go to this article)

In this article, I will reveal the secret reason women become so obsessed over the so-called "bad boys"... and the reason you're not getting the same results as them.

Hint: It's not that you're a good guy and not enough of a "jerk". Instead, it has more to do with mistakes that stop you from creating an "obsession" in women.

Let's start with a couple mistakes I see men make ALL THE TIME.

Mistake #1: Revealing Your Feelings

When it comes to attraction there's a "game" involved. You can't just rush in and spill your guts revealing how you feel. No, you have to play it right.

If you play this game correctly, you can get a girl to become INSANELY attracted to you.

Why does this game need to be played? Well, imagine that the game of dating is a movie. When the girl experiences this movie with you, you can't just reveal the spoilers within the first five minutes.

You can't do that because it will ruin the movie!

When you already know the ending of the movie before you watch it... how do you feel? It isn't exciting anymore... and you get bored.

Same thing happens with a girl who was interested in you but you ruined it by telling her your feelings and making it obvious that you already want to be her boyfriend.

She gets bored, and looks for a more exciting option...

If there was another guy chasing her who she also liked, she now starts giving him attention instead of you.

Now to be clear, when I say "revealing your feelings" I'm talking about "relationship" feelings.

Which leads me to the next wrong mindset men have...

Mistake #2: Acting Like You Want to Be Her Boyfriend Too Early

It's bad if you act like you want to be her boyfriend early on.

However, it's perfectly ok, and even RECOMMENDED... that she knows you want her sexually.

This is because a man with many options doesn't try to rush into a relationship with a girl he barely met a week ago.

This follows the principle of ABUNDANCE: When you act like a man of many options... you naturally act in a way that triggers attraction in women.

If you have abundance (many options)...

1. You don't mind being bold and taking risks by communicating to women that you want them sexually, and...
2. It takes time to win you over as a boyfriend.

Remember this, don't act like you want to be her boyfriend... act like her LOVER.

You agreeing to be her boyfriend is the PRIZE that she works to obtain.

This follows the principle of INVESTMENT: A girl who puts in effort to win your attention convinces herself that she is attracted to you.

That's how you make a girl obsess over you!

How Pre-Selection With Women Gets You Girls

Let's talk about pre-selection.

Being aware of pre-selection with women is critical to making girls want you.

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What is Pre-Selection With Women?

Pre-Selection is the principle that girls are attracted to guys they think other girls are attracted to.

Whenever a girl sees that other girls are interested in a guy, it's like they have "proof" that the guy MUST be attractive, otherwise women wouldn't act that way around him.

Ever had a girlfriend and then noticed other girls were into you and you were like where the hell were these girls when I was single? This is the phenomenon of "pre-selection with women".

The same happens when we see an ugly guy with a pretty girl. We assume has has good game.

The good news is that, when they at first meet you, girls can't actually tell if you have "good game"... they only go by the superficial signals they get from you.

This means that you can use pre-selection with women to give off "I have good game and am wanted by other women" signs, and the girl will become attracted to you.

However, many guys don't realize it, but they give off "I don't get many women" signs.

And this is horrible for their success with women.

Ways Men Give Off "I'm Not Wanted By Women" Signals

1. Facebook

If you look at the pictures of that hot girl in your circle of frames... you'll
always find that guy who's the first to comment on her

2. Texting

If you text too much, send long texts, and get into long conversations, the girl will think "this guy is just sitting around waiting for me to text him... he's got nothing else going for him in his life"

Phone Tip

That's why it's a good policy to put your phone in silent and not check it for a few hours when talking to a girl you have a crush on.

The Ultimate Way to Give off the "I Am Wanted By Other Women" Vibe: Use the Cat String Theory!

This is the idea that women are like cats chasing a string. As long as you have the string in front of her... she will chase it. However, the minute she gets the string she starts getting bored.

You are the string. If she senses she got you too "easy"... she will get bored and stop feeling attraction for you.

That's why you must remember this:

BE the prize. Even though they might act like it sometimes... women don't want to be the prize... They want you to be the prize so they are chasing you to win you over.

This is the principle of "investment"...

Meaning: The more you can make a woman put in effort and do things for you, the more she will feel convinced that she's trying to win you over and this will cause her to become attracted to you.