How to Make a Girl Obsess Over You

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Want to know how to make a girl obsess over you? Then make sure you watch the video above.

In the video, Bobby and Rob talk about how to make a girl obsessed with you.

Now, I will summarize the video (for a more in-depth summary, go to this article)

In this article, I will reveal the secret reason women become so obsessed over the so-called "bad boys"... and the reason you're not getting the same results as them.

Hint: It's not that you're a good guy and not enough of a "jerk". Instead, it has more to do with mistakes that stop you from creating an "obsession" in women.

Let's start with a couple mistakes I see men make ALL THE TIME.

Mistake #1: Revealing Your Feelings

When it comes to attraction there's a "game" involved. You can't just rush in and spill your guts revealing how you feel. No, you have to play it right.

If you play this game correctly, you can get a girl to become INSANELY attracted to you.

Why does this game need to be played? Well, imagine that the game of dating is a movie. When the girl experiences this movie with you, you can't just reveal the spoilers within the first five minutes.

You can't do that because it will ruin the movie!

When you already know the ending of the movie before you watch it... how do you feel? It isn't exciting anymore... and you get bored.

Same thing happens with a girl who was interested in you but you ruined it by telling her your feelings and making it obvious that you already want to be her boyfriend.

She gets bored, and looks for a more exciting option...

If there was another guy chasing her who she also liked, she now starts giving him attention instead of you.

Now to be clear, when I say "revealing your feelings" I'm talking about "relationship" feelings.

Which leads me to the next wrong mindset men have...

Mistake #2: Acting Like You Want to Be Her Boyfriend Too Early

It's bad if you act like you want to be her boyfriend early on.

However, it's perfectly ok, and even RECOMMENDED... that she knows you want her sexually.

This is because a man with many options doesn't try to rush into a relationship with a girl he barely met a week ago.

This follows the principle of ABUNDANCE: When you act like a man of many options... you naturally act in a way that triggers attraction in women.

If you have abundance (many options)...

1. You don't mind being bold and taking risks by communicating to women that you want them sexually, and...
2. It takes time to win you over as a boyfriend.

Remember this, don't act like you want to be her boyfriend... act like her LOVER.

You agreeing to be her boyfriend is the PRIZE that she works to obtain.

This follows the principle of INVESTMENT: A girl who puts in effort to win your attention convinces herself that she is attracted to you.

That's how you make a girl obsess over you!