that lead to rejection.
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These are "romantic moves" men do that backfire on them.
Instead of the move conquering the girl, the girl loses attraction and the guy gets hurt.
Let's start with mistake #1.
Nice Guy Mistake #1: Sending a Girl Flowers or Giving Her Gifts
This comes from the line of thinking that you have to make the "big move" to show a girl how much you like her, and once she sees how much you like her, she will magically like you too.
However, nothing is further from the truth.
This mentality has failed countless men throughout mankind... and it's because of two reasons.
First, a woman becomes attracted to you as a result of the way you make her feel when she's around you. She likes how your personality makes her FEEL CHEMISTRY inside... she doesn't get feelings of attraction because of a particular gift you bought her.
That's why it's so important to understand how to make women feel attraction.
And second, sending gifts and flowers sends the wrong message.
Using gifts to lure women says to the world "I have nothing of value to offer with my personality... and I have no game... so I'm taking out my wallet and buying you this gift to make up for it in the hopes that it'll get you to like me."
I hope you understand this... because it's very important to get.
Now let's go over the next mistake.
Nice Guy Mistake #2: Confessing Your Feelings
This one goes like this:
As you start to really fall for your girl, the tension inside of you builds up until you can't take it anymore and you make the BIG MOVE of telling her you have feelings for her.
Then as the "moment of truth" gets closer and closer, you fantasize what her response is going to be like. You convince yourself that she's going to realize how romantic your gesture is and she'll confess her feelings back to you.
However, you are crushed when your girl gives you the "let's just be friends" talk. You feel worse when she says "You are so sweet... I know you'll find a great girl!"
This is what happens when you let your guard down and you let yourself revert into your "inner" WUSSY.
It turns out this is one of the common mistakes men make.
Once you start thinking "Na... this girl is different... she's SPECIAL!" ...you go back to acting like little boys.
Nice Guy Mistake #3: Being Too Available
The nice guy is always too available.
It's like his whole purpose in life is to be there for the girl.
However, women secretly hate it when you make them your purpose.
Women want you to ALREADY have a purpose. They want you to already be on a path in life, so that then she tags along on that path by your side.
When you have a life with a career, passions, goals you are striving for...
women love it and become intrigued by you.
Now let me tell you another secret.
Here's something to watch out for...
Women often try to see if they can knock you OFF your path to make HER your path. If you give in and sacrifice your purpose and instead make "pleasing the woman" your purpose, she will lose attraction and she won't be able to know why.
However, if instead, you don't budge and you maintain the course, she becomes even MORE fascinated by you.
This is exactly why girls are attracted to jerks. They aren't attracted because jerks are mean, they are attracted to jerks because they can't have them completely. They are too hard to catch!
Similarly, women are attracted to men who are so grounded in their purpose that they can't be caught.
I just went over 3 nice guy mistakes men make with women.
I explained why we make these mistakes, and why you lose women because of them.
Now the question becomes, "How DO I attract women?"
Fair enough, I just showed you what NOT to do so it's fair to ask "WHAT" to do.
Something you want to know is that there exists an "attraction blueprint" to make a girl chase you.
It has a lot to do with the fact that women feel attracted to men they feel they had to work for.
Therefore the more a woman invests to win you over, the more she will convince herself she is falling for you.
Towards the end of this article you'll learn the behaviors you must do make a woman feel she has to win you over... because she's constantly thinking about you in her mind (the beginning of the article covers the 3 nice guy mistakes I just showed you).
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