5 Techniques to Create Sexual Tension With a Girl Over Text

Is a woman only responding with dry, COLD replies to your text messages?

In this article, we're going to talk about "sexual tension" and how to create it.

I'm going to give you 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.

This is ESPECIALLY important to "get" if women seem eager to talk to you at first, but then their excitement level "fizzles out" after a while.

You'll be able to use these 5 texting techniques to ramp up sexual tension so that the girl gives you responses that are more "full of energy."

What is Sexual Tension?

Sexual tension is the CONTRAST between ATTRACTION and ESCALATION.

When you're with a girl and you're looking into her eyes and it makes you horny, and it makes her horny, and you both want to jump each others' bones... but yet you hold your place and bask in that unresolved desire.

THAT is tension!

The thing is, you can suggest and give little clues that you want her, but you aren't completely being OVERT about it.

In essence, you are TEASING the woman by exciting her so much without resolving that tension such that she nervously giggles and ends jumping you and kissing you because she can't take it anymore.

However, most men can't handle tension. They can't hold it, so they jump too fast and kill the tension. Because of this, women are increasingly frustrated that they can't find a guy who "gets" it.

But you are here reading this article... and you now have access to powerful material few men will ever know about.

Because when you have the ability to create and maintain sexual tension... it makes women literally ADDICTED to you. They won't be able to resist it.

The KEY to Building Sexual Tension

Now let me give you the "MAGIC" formula for sexual tension.

They key to creating sexual tension is...

OBSTACLES that frustrate or delay the ESCALATION.

Let's focus on the two red words in all caps.

First, "escalation". This should be pretty obvious. When you "escalate" you take things to the next level, one more step closer to sex.

Second is "obstacles." And this one's the most important... because it gives you a clue
on how to build sexual tension.

What this says is if you are able to you create OBSTACLES, by using tactics, language, or texts, that delay the path to sex... then you are able to generate tension.

Remember, again, there already has to be SOME attraction for this to work. There has to be arousal for you to amplify the arousal with tension. If you've created zero attraction, creating an obstacle to escalation won't do anything.

Make sense?

Ok now let's go over 5 ways to increase sexual tension in text message conversations. These are 5 methods that create "obstacles".

Method #1: Teasing the Escalation

Whenever you are already texting "naughty" with a girl... don't go overt too fast.

Instead, "tease" the escalation.

Behold the "Pancake Tease" Technique:

Analysis:

• I didn't jump straight to eating her out
• Instead, I "skirted" around the edges by describing that same "eating out" behavior on a pancake
• This created more tension, and turned her on more, than if I just described eating her out.
• I did this online and the teasing STANDS OUT. Remember, the internet is the world of men with abnormally high confidence because they're hiding behind their computer screens.

Method #2: Inject Innuendos Into the Conversation

Innuendos are words with double meanings. These are words that have an "innocent" meaning, but also a sexual interpretation.

When you can get a woman aroused... but it's still "unclear" if things are going to happen... you create sexual tension.

That's what innuendos help you do.

Their "double meaning" ambiguity makes things uncertain and it presents an obstacle to the escalation.

Examples of Innuendos

• ride it (ride the car)
• I'm giving you a hard time (teasing you)
• that's very big of you (big as in important)
• come down here (to this place)
• eating out (going to eat, not eating her out)
• let's go down (to a place)
• the test was so hard (very difficult)
• new direction (sounds like nude erection)
• getting wet (because it's raining)

All of these phrases can have a sexual interpretation, if she chooses to take that path. That being said, here's the step-by-step of how to make innuendos work...

Step 1: BAIT - Inject an innuendo into a conversation
Step 2: See if she takes the bait - see if the girl reacts to it
Step 3: It's ON

Next.

Method 3 will help you if you're about to go on a date.

Method #3: Building Tension and Anticipation Before a Date

This works great to warm her up before you see her.

For example, if you're going to meet a woman for coffee in the afternoon, text her "Hmmm, I can't wait until you buy me coffee today... the aroma in that cafe is so delicious and the creamy mochas are the best."

This text...

1. Stimulates her senses with descriptive words

2. Is cocky because you're suggesting she will buy you coffee

3. Gets her intrigued and gets her wondering about the evening she's going to have with you. It BUILDS ANTICIPATION

Next...

Method #4: Use Push/Pull Flirting to Ramp up the Tension

A pull is an "I like you" type message while a push is a "this is not going to work out" type message.

The mistake most men do is either they "pull" the girl too much by putting her on a pedestal... or they "push" the girl too much by "negging" her, and acting like the jerk.

However, when you alternate the two playfully, you are doing the dance of FLIRTING.

This makes a woman uncertain of how much you like, and as you can imagine, this generates massive amounts of tension.

If you are able to inject intent in the conversation while, injecting a few "pushes" here and there, you will notice the woman react positively.

Here's the 5th method to generate sexual tension.

Method #5: Blame the Escalation on Her

With this one, you make it all her fault.

Something she is doing is making you feel and act that way.

Basically, if you're escalating on her... it's her fault. If you're getting turned on by her... it's her fault.

This is pretty cheeky and clever because it introduces "plausible deniability." You playfully deny your intent because it's HER FAULT she is making you feel that way.

And when you do this, you create uncertainty... which creates sexual tension.

Examples of Blaming Her For the Escalation

• Why are you making me think these thoughts about you?
• Do you seduce every guy like this?
• You're doing this on purpose... I'm on to your tricks little one
• Why are you doing this to me? You're the worst. I hate you.
• How did you know I have a weakness for brunettes from Southern Cali
• Are you trying to hypnotize me with your eyes right now?
• You know, it's really not cool to be so cute and charming. Not fair.

The lines above should give you an idea of the technique. I provide them to you so you can have "training wheels" to practice.

That's it! 5 ways to create sexual tension with a girl over text.

Well, I probably gave you way more than 5... so you're welcome ;)

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