Sunday, March 12, 2017

How to Turn Your Female Friend Into Your Girlfriend

Are you frustrated because you're stuck in the friend zone with that amazing woman you can't stop thinking about?

When women keep putting you in the friend zone, it's probably due to 2 HUGE MISTAKES that stop you from getting physical with her.

These two mistakes stop her from thinking of you as more than just a friend.

They make it IMPOSSIBLE for her to envision getting physical with you.

The possibility NEVER crosses her mind.

If you keep making these mistakes, you will keep getting friend zoned by the women you meet.

But if you fix these mistakes... women will start thinking of you as someone they would get "physical" with.

The first mistake is...

Mistake #1: Hesitating to Make a Move On Her Because You're Waiting For More "Proof" That She Likes You


Look, if you sit around waiting for a woman to make it really obvious that she likes you... you will LOSE your chance.

She will get tired of waiting, and rationalize it's not "meant to be" because things aren't getting physical.

That's why you need to LEAD the situation to where you want it to go.

Yes there's a TON of risk involved... but masculine behavior is all about leading, taking risks, and making things happen.

It's what you have to do!

When you shamelessly suggest your intent with her, you are being MASCULINE.

Plus you demonstrate confidence, and she will appreciate you for it.

Most men "play it safe" by


  • engaging in long text conversations of "getting to know her" before making
  • any attempt to get her out
  • never even trying to flirt in a sexual way because you're scared she'll get offended
  • never going for the kiss to avoid getting rejected
  • never attempting to take things to a more "physical" level when you're alone to avoid rejection
  • procrastinating and never making your move


All of that is UN-MASCULINE behavior that won't get you anywhere!

Acting "un-masculine" stops you from creating the crucial "masculine-feminine polarity" that makes women FEEL CHEMISTRY when interacting with you.

When you know how to trigger chemistry like this, it makes women want to be around you.

But if you only engage in "safe" uninteresting interactions... women place you in the nice guy friend category.

Because you only never get into the *more risky conversations that spark emotions in her. (conversations like these)

She puts on her "good girl" side, puts away her "bad girl" naughty side... and saves it for the guy who can trigger emotions in her.

Mistake #2: Revealing Your Feelings, But in a Weak, Low-Status Way

Yeah, yeah, I know I just said mistake #1 was waiting too long and not being "aggressive" enough... but if you show a girl you like her like a weak, submissive, beta-male does, then that won't work either!

Because a woman won't feel attraction for a man who acts weak and doesn't value himself.

When you're weak and insecure, and you fall in love with a girl... a tragic story follows.

It's the same tragic story I've experienced countless of times.

The 15-Step Tragedy of How Boy Gets Rejected By Girl and Feels Sad About it Afterwards


1. Boy meets girl

2. Boy develops feelings for girl

3. Girl gives boy "mixed signals"

4. Mixed signals make boy confused with irrational, but intense, emotions

5. Boy gets "psychic tension"

6. The "Psychic tension" makes boy want to break the tension by revealing his feelings for the girl

7. Boy reveals his feelings for girl with "grand gesture" act.

This is an act where he might...

  • buy the girl flowers
  • give her a gift
  • write her a poem
  • draw cheesy portrait of her face
  • etc...

8. Girl says "awww" and mentions how boy is so sweet

9. But then girl says she doesn't feel the same way about boy.

10. Boy gets heartbroken

11. Boy moves on

12. Boy recovers

13. Boy meets new girl

14. Boy starts getting feelings for new girl

15. Cycle repeats...

If this is all ringing a bell, then you can relate to this experience, just like me.

And as we look at this cycle, the question becomes...

How do you break the cycle and start becoming more than friends with that amazing woman in our life that we really want?

Here's how you break the cycle:

You know steps 5 through 7 above? Like where I mention the "psychic tension" you get when you start to really obsess over a girl?

You have to FLIP IT AROUND and instead make the girl feel the psychic tension.

See, you want her to be the one obsessing over you... telling her friends about you... because she feels crazy attracted to you.

It's all explained here in this article

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