How to Make a Woman Fall in Love With You

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In this video, Bobby and Rob reveal how to make a woman fall in love with you.

Now I will summarize the video. (For a more in-depth summary, go to this article)

There's always that moment when you're falling in love with that special girl.

Things are going well. She always responds to your texts, and laughs at your jokes...

But then one day you text her...

An hour goes by, she doesn't respond...

Two hours go by, and she still hasn't responded.

A whole day goes by and now you're seriously worried.

Finally she replies, but you can tell something is "OFF."

Her texts are emotionless, COLD, and she doesn't seem as excited to talk to you as she did before.

In your stomach, you get this feeling... that you KNOW something has changed.

This happened to me with a girl I was seeing.

We would text almost every day, until suddenly with no warning she stopped texting me for an entire week.

When this happens, what do us men do? We think "Maybe I didn't show her that I liked her enough... I should be more romantic"

But it's almost never that we didn't show our feelings enough. In fact, it's usually because we said TOO MUCH!

Oftentimes, the reason women lose attraction are the things you'd least expect!

When you show them you like them too much, you've become too predictable, they lose the spark they feel for you.

Why does this happen?

I'll share with you a little secret on the intriguing nature of female psychology.

If you have a bad habit of causing women to stop talking to you, because they feel you've gotten too boring and predictable... then pay attention and learn about the power of uncertainty.

How Uncertainty Makes a Woman Fall in Love With You

The more uncertain she is about whether you want a relationship or not, the more she's going to wonder about you when you're away.

On the other hand, if she knows you are a "sure thing", she know you're always there, and so she won't put any effort to win you over.

It's like watching a movie.

When you're watching a movie we've already seen, you already know the end of it, and it's not as exciting as the first time you watch it.

It's a bit more boring and predictable, so you flip the channel and look for something new.

The same happens with a girl when you become to boring and predictable. She flips the channel and looks for another guy.

However, when you know the behaviors that get women to wonder about you, you can get a girl so emotionally invested in you, that she starts falling in love with you.

How to make her obsessed? Learn how to make a girl obsess over you here.

How to Stop Being the Nice Guy With Women

Bobby and Rob teach you how to stop being the nice guy on the video below.

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In this article, I will talk about typical nice guy behaviors that make you suck with women.

In fact, a lot of it has to do with "social conditioning."

Mainstream society is notorious for giving us horrible advice on attracting women... and it turns many of us into nice guy "WUSSIES".

What Everyone Usually Says

Whenever we get advice from movies, or people you know, what do they typically say?

They say "You should just be yourself and everything will be just fine" or... "you should tell her how you feel"

That's the usual mainstream advice that you hear.

However, the advice"just be yourself" can be easily used as an excuse to avoid walking through fear... something that is crucial to evolving as a man. For example, of there's a pretty girl you're afraid to approach, it's very easy to justify "I don't feel like I'm being myself when I approach her, therefore, I will stay here in my comfort zone."

Similarly, the grand act of revealing your feelings to a girl will probably end in rejection if you don't understand how attraction works.

How does attraction work? Well let's first start by eliminating your nice guy mistakes.

If you follow the mainstream advice you hear in the media, you've probably turned into a nice guy... and there are mistakes nice guys typically do that cause them to lose girls.

Nice Guys Put Women on Pedestals

Never put the woman on a pedestal.

Nice guys do it, but what does it mean?

Putting a girl on a pedestal means you are giving your power away to her. You are trying to hard to be an approval-seeking pleaser, that you sacrifice yourself and let her have anything she wants.

You probably lost a few girls because of this. I know I have... and the hurt teaches us a very important lesson: Don't supplicate to women by putting them on pedestals!

Subtle Ways You Might Be Supplicating to Women

You probably are more aware of the obvious ways to give our power away to women, but what about the more subtle things that we do "automatically"?

There are subtle ways we supplicate without even noticing and it makes women lose attraction for us.

For example...

You're seeing a girl. She likes hip hop, while you like rock music. Whenever this girl gets in your car, she changes the radio station to hip hop music... and you just let her do this even though you don't like it.

Because in your mind, you feel she's more important than you.

Again, it's very subtle when this happens, but deep down, you feel that it's more important that enjoys the music, than you enjoying it.

Now chivalry and being cool is one thing. But this is about not putting yourself BELOW the girl in fear that she won't like you if you don't please her.

Instead, put both you and her on an EQUAL level

That's how to stop being the nice guy.

Another example...

You're at the bar and a girl goes up to you and says "Will you buy me a drink?"

Typically, there are two extremes guys take here. One is the nice guy who will eagerly buy her a drink. The other is guy who heard "stop being so nice, don't buy women drinks"... and so he comes off as a combative jerk.

What to do instead? Here's what you do...

When a girl says "buy me a drink" say "sure I'll buy you a drink, but first get us a couple of tables so we can sit and talk"

Again, you two are on an equal level.

Which means, if you're going to do things for her, she's also going to do things for you!

So if she asks for a favor...

You make sure she also does something for you so she contributes!

Same goes for if she wants to change the radio station.

You say "I'll let you listen to Hot97, but only if you sing me the first verse of Bohemian Rhapsody."

Boom, you make sure she also contributes... so that you're not just this nice guy bending over backwards doing favors for the girl.

And when there's a nice balance of both of you doing things for each other, that's a great interaction.

Because want to know the secret to making a girl fall in love with you? It's INVESTMENT.

Look, if you can get a girl to invest and do things for you, then you're IN!

Because once she starts investing, she backwards rationalizes "I must really like this guy otherwise I wouldn't be doing all these things for him".

And this is secret of why "jerks" get girls.

It's not that he is "mean" to her and that the nice guy is "nice".

It's this...

The nice guy = invests way too much on a girl while she does nothing

The jerk = invests only a little, but knows exactly how to get a woman to invest in them (and women LOVE it when you make them work to win you over)

That's how to stop being the nice guy.

Next: Read 3 Nice Guy Mistakes Men Make With Women

3 Nice Guy Mistakes Men Make With Women

Bobby Rio and Rob Judge reveal the 3 nice guy mistakes men make with women
that lead to rejection.

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These are "romantic moves" men do that backfire on them.

Instead of the move conquering the girl, the girl loses attraction and the guy gets hurt.

Let's start with mistake #1.

Nice Guy Mistake #1: Sending a Girl Flowers or Giving Her Gifts

This comes from the line of thinking that you have to make the "big move" to show a girl how much you like her, and once she sees how much you like her, she will magically like you too.

However, nothing is further from the truth.

This mentality has failed countless men throughout mankind... and it's because of two reasons.

First, a woman becomes attracted to you as a result of the way you make her feel when she's around you. She likes how your personality makes her FEEL CHEMISTRY inside... she doesn't get feelings of attraction because of a particular gift you bought her.

That's why it's so important to understand how to make women feel attraction.

And second, sending gifts and flowers sends the wrong message.

Using gifts to lure women says to the world "I have nothing of value to offer with my personality... and I have no game... so I'm taking out my wallet and buying you this gift to make up for it in the hopes that it'll get you to like me."

I hope you understand this... because it's very important to get.

Now let's go over the next mistake.

Nice Guy Mistake #2: Confessing Your Feelings

This one goes like this:

As you start to really fall for your girl, the tension inside of you builds up until you can't take it anymore and you make the BIG MOVE of telling her you have feelings for her.

Then as the "moment of truth" gets closer and closer, you fantasize what her response is going to be like. You convince yourself that she's going to realize how romantic your gesture is and she'll confess her feelings back to you.

However, you are crushed when your girl gives you the "let's just be friends" talk. You feel worse when she says "You are so sweet... I know you'll find a great girl!"

This is what happens when you let your guard down and you let yourself revert into your "inner" WUSSY.

It turns out this is one of the common mistakes men make.

Once you start thinking "Na... this girl is different... she's SPECIAL!" ...you go back to acting like little boys.

Nice Guy Mistake #3: Being Too Available

The nice guy is always too available.

It's like his whole purpose in life is to be there for the girl.

However, women secretly hate it when you make them your purpose.

Women want you to ALREADY have a purpose. They want you to already be on a path in life, so that then she tags along on that path by your side.

When you have a life with a career, passions, goals you are striving for...
women love it and become intrigued by you.

Now let me tell you another secret.

Here's something to watch out for...

Women often try to see if they can knock you OFF your path to make HER your path. If you give in and sacrifice your purpose and instead make "pleasing the woman" your purpose, she will lose attraction and she won't be able to know why.

However, if instead, you don't budge and you maintain the course, she becomes even MORE fascinated by you.

This is exactly why girls are attracted to jerks. They aren't attracted because jerks are mean, they are attracted to jerks because they can't have them completely. They are too hard to catch!

Similarly, women are attracted to men who are so grounded in their purpose that they can't be caught.

I just went over 3 nice guy mistakes men make with women.

I explained why we make these mistakes, and why you lose women because of them.

Now the question becomes, "How DO I attract women?"

Fair enough, I just showed you what NOT to do so it's fair to ask "WHAT" to do.

Something you want to know is that there exists an "attraction blueprint" to make a girl chase you.

It has a lot to do with the fact that women feel attracted to men they feel they had to work for.

Therefore the more a woman invests to win you over, the more she will convince herself she is falling for you.

Towards the end of this article you'll learn the behaviors you must do make a woman feel she has to win you over... because she's constantly thinking about you in her mind (the beginning of the article covers the 3 nice guy mistakes I just showed you).