Signs My Ex Girlfriend Wants Me Back

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So... your ex girlfriend texted you out of the blue and now you're suddenly wondering if you could get her back.

But before you do anything else, read this article to learn the #1 mistake men make when trying to
"convince" their ex girlfriends to be in a relationship with them again.

Students often write me asking "what are the signs my ex girlfriend wants me back"

Let's go over some of these signs.

1. She Starts Using Your "Pet Name" Again

This is a big sign that she wants to make things go back to how they were before.

It signifies comfort, and a "lovey-dovey" vibe.

2. She Sounds Eager to Communicate With You and Texts You Back Quickly

When a woman loses attraction for you, she distances herself, and you notice she isn't texting you like before.

But if you notice an ex girlfriend changes and she's suddenly eager to talk, it's a strong indicator she's thinking about you and misses you.

3. She Randomly Texts You Out of the Blue

If you're wondering what are the "signs my ex girlfriend wants me back?"...then here's something you should know about female psychology...

When your ex girlfriend texts you out of the blue, it's for a reason.

See, when a girl misses you, she starts thinking about you, and then figures out a way to jump back into your life.

She will probably do this very INDIRECTLY.  Meaning, she might use an"excuse".

And here's what you should do:

Whatever method she uses to get back into your life, assume the reason she's doing it is because she wants to see you... and then suggest meeting up.

The detailed plan of what to do in this situation is laid out in this article where I go through what to do when your ex girlfriend reaches out after a long time of no contact.

However, you must beware. The following blunder is one guys keep making ALL THE TIME.

The #1 Big Mistake

Want to know the biggest mistake men make when trying to get an ex back?

It's this:

Pushing your ex girlfriend away because you're trying to get the relationship label back too quickly.

Yes your ex is back in your life... and you want to take advantage of this opportunity to make her yours again... but pressuring her to commit to being "official" again will only work against you.

It makes the girl feel "less free"... it makes things "serious" and less fun... your interactions lose qualities that generate attraction.

And as soon as you try to cage your ex into a relationship, she will feel pressured, her attraction will fade, and you will lose her AGAIN... and maybe this time forever.

What you should instead do is start from the beginning. Only focus on having fun and getting physical with her.

Also...

• Don't be attached to whether she is exclusively yours or not
• Don't talk about the meaning of you and her
• Don't get into "feelings" talk
• Don't ask her when you're going to be "together" again
• Don't be clingy
• Don't become needy of her attention to feel good

Instead, hang out, have fun, and hook up.

Your goal is just to arrange dates that lead to sex.

Be clever about it. Making dinner together at your place, in your kitchen (which is 15 feet from your bed)  is 100 times better than dinner at some fancy restaurant. You'll get laid a lot more being smart about logistics.

If you carry yourself with this attitude, your ex will become more and more attracted until she starts bringing up being in a relationship again. That's how you make your ex girlfriend fall in love with you more than ever before.