Tuesday, April 24, 2018

Why Did My Girlfriend Leave Me For Another Guy





Whenever a guy writes me asking "why did my girlfriend leave me for another guy"...

...the real question is: "Why did this girl lose attraction for you?"

Because here's the deal:

Your girlfriend lost attraction for you and either 1. You had no idea she was losing interest, or 2. You had a bad feeling that something was wrong, but you didn't know what to do about it

The general reason she lost attraction is simple:

When she first fell in love, you did something to attract her, and she was attracted to that version of you. However, somewhere along the way you stopped being "attractive"... and you turned into a "weak" insecure version of yourself that turned the girl off.

More Specific Reasons She Lost Attraction


When you're not emotionally strong and centered (this is masculine energy)... and you are weak and easily get thrown "off balance"...

This particularly happens when a girl becomes distant.

When she seems a little distant... maybe she stops texting you like before... or she doesn't seem as eager to meet you... or if she mentions a guy friend she hangs out with... all of this makes you worried that you're going to lose her.

So what your brain does here is that it becomes dependent on her "validation".

You start overvaluing her texts. Whenever she texts you, it makes you feel awesome... but whenever she goes a long time without texting you back, you feel like crap.

In essence, you are not emotionally strong and centered like a man.

The girl senses this and loses attraction... and she starts lining up another guy to take your place.

I know this is hard to hear. But women don't leave without another option ready.

By the time she decides to dump you, she already has lost almost all attraction for you... and she already knows which guy will take your place.

This isn't something that happens overnight. Women slowly gain attraction over time, and they slowly lose it. If you don't notice she's losing attraction, it can cause deep pain when she surprises you with "the talk".

That's why it's important to get this part of your life handled... to avoid this happening, and to make sure you get the results you want of a lasting happy relationship.

But now the result you want is to "flip" the attraction of your ex girlfriend to get back the relationship you once had.

You want her back more than anything in the world. You wish you knew exactly how.

The first part is to go over the mistakes that cause your girlfriend to lose attraction.

We went over some of them.

Next, you want to further understand how attraction works so that you are able to use it to attract your ex girlfriend back.

A big part of this is the "no contact" rule... and to communicate with your ex girlfriend the correct way when she reaches out. (Most guys mess this part up)

In this article, I reveal how:

http://championsofmen.com/when-your-ex-girlfriend-reaches-out-after-a-long-time-of-no-contact/


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