"Why is My Girlfriend Mad At Me?" - When She is Rude

Your girlfriend has been getting mad at you lately, and you don't know how to make it better... which makes you REALLY frustrated.

If you're asking "why is my girlfriend mad at me?!"...then keep reading.

Especially if:

• She gets angry over the smallest things...
  
• You feel you have to tip-toe around what you say to avoid making her mad...
  
• You feel she doesn't respect you anymore...
  
• You worry that you're going to lose the relationship...

Dealing with a girlfriend who's rude to you or who easily gets mad is critical to maintaining the attraction.

If you let a woman walk all over you, you will become weak in her eyes, and she'll lose attraction.

But handle this correctly, and you'll gain her respect and attraction back.

Now here's something very important you should know:

Women Act Mad and Moody When You Act Weak

A woman hates it when their boyfriend acts needy and fearful about them.

It's annoying to them, because they want a boyfriend who isn't a wuss.

They want a man... so the female will instinctively test your boundaries... to see how you react.

Will you freak out... or will you be unfazed... solid as a rock?

So she may go distant at one point... and this will actually be a "test". See, like the tide that goes up and down, a woman might get busy and will need time away from you to deal with her emotions.

Your reaction to this is CRITICAL.

(More: Why a girl acts cold and distant)

If your girlfriend has been getting mad at you lately, ask yourself: "Is she legitimally stressed?... is she just acting immature?...

Or is it your weak behavior that's annoying her and causing her to act this way?

If you're displaying weakness, and it's turning a woman off, then here's something else you need to know:

When Women Lose Attraction, it Doesn't Happen Overnight

See, women lose attraction slowly over time... not all at once.

If you're the kind of person who gets fearful that a girl might leave you... and if things she does makes you imagine bad scenarios of her dumping you, cheating, or liking one of her guy friends more... then that fear will cause you to display weak needy behavior.

But ironically, all of these fears over time increase the risk of making your fears a REALITY.

This leads us to...

The Exercise of Valuing Yourself

If you get irrational feelings that she won't like you anymore and hook up with another guy,
then you're not valuing yourself enough.

You gotta think to yourself:

• "I am a catch""...
• "If she treats me badly, she doesn't deserve me"
• "I only accept first-class treatment from women"...
• "I filter for awesome girls who treasure me and want to join me on my journey of life"...
• "If she cheats, she is disqualified and I don't want her anyways"...
• "She is lucky to be with me, if she throws the relationship away, she will miss out"...
• "I am on my journey, on my path, she will miss the train if she doesn't join me in this journey"...

Read these affirmations and see which ones resonate with you. Feel free to use your own wording to come up with more affirmations.

The bottom line is that you must stand up for yourself and respect yourself if you want women to respect and love you as well.

When you give up your power in order to please a woman to avoid her getting mad at you... it usually means you're in SCARCITY.

Meaning, you feel that if you lose her it'll be the end of the world, so you really want to keep her. You'll do anything to keep her... including sacrificing yourself and putting yourself down.

So if a girlfriend is rude, abusive, and gets mad for the silliest things, remember that there are tons of women out there in the world.

Be a man of OPTIONS, and your brain will stop having intense irrational feelings that step from scarcity... and it'll make your dating life more successful and happy.