Why Your Ex Girlfriend Keeps Contacting You

Here's why your ex girlfriend keeps contacting you:

You are on her mind.

Now there's something you should know:

Attraction Isn't "Set in Stone"

Look at it this way...

This girl loved you before when you were together. Things were awesome.

But somewhere along the way, she stopped feeling the love and it made her stop wanting to be your girlfriend.

She went from loving you, to not loving you.

Now, since attraction isn't "fixed", the love a woman felt for you was only IN THE MOMENT during that time... and it can't be applied to a different time when she doesn't love you.

So when you go back in contact with your ex girlfriend, you gotta start over from the beginning and
re-attract her again. You can't assume the previous years of love and jump back into the relationship
right away.

It doesn't work like that. You'll push her away.

However, here are some good news...

Because attraction isn't set in stone, yes the woman can go from loving you to not loving you, but she can ALSO go from loving you to getting the love back.

And since your ex girlfriend keeps contacting you, it means she is feeling at least some attraction for you.

Maybe she's wondering what you've been up to, and wants to get back in your life.

Or she's reminiscing about the time you spend together, and she suddenly wants to experience that again.

If you know what to do, and you handle your situation correctly, you can get the relationship back.

But if you make the 1 common mistake guys make when an ex girlfriend reaches out...  you'll push her away and lose your chance forever.

What are these mistakes?

I'll give you a little nugget of wisdom you should write down somewhere in a notebook.

One of the 5 Toxic Behaviors that STOP Your Ex Girlfriend From Loving You Again is...

Trying to Convince Her to "Get Back Together" With You

Like I covered earlier in this article, attraction isn't "set in stone". Attraction is a sliding scale that you increase or decrease.

So when your ex girlfriend shows a bit of attraction by reaching out and wanting to talk... it doesn't mean she is 100% in love and ready to be in a relationship again.

Instead of trying to put a "relationship label" on what you + her are... your sole focus should just be to create a get-together where you two have a fun romantic experience that leads to sex.

No getting serious, no talking about feelings, no trying to make it an "official relationship", only focus on having fun and hooking up.

The minute you start getting into "relationship mode"... you'll push her away and she'll feel smothered.

Instead, let the woman be the one to bring up being in a relationship. And if you carry yourself in a confident, non-needy manner while you have sexy dates with her, she'll eventually bring up getting the relationship back.